GOING WITH THE WIND…

My house says to me, « Do not leave me, for here dwells your past. » And the road says to me, « Come and follow me, for I am your future. » And I say to both my house and the road, « I have no past, nor have I a future. » If I stay here, there is a …

AUTUMN OF LIFE

’Tis the season to embrace being alone by Steven W Thrasher, Friday 7 November 2014, The Guardian Winter is coming, but autumn gives us time to prepare for loss – of light and warmth, of love and life. There is no better time to contemplate loss than when the leaves start to fall. Photograph: Oliver Berg/EPA The …

THE DIFFERENCE

“What counts in life is not the mere fact that we have lived. It is what difference we have made to the lives of others that will determine the significance of the life we lead.” Nelson Mandela  

ABOUT CANCER, CURE AND DEATH

Don’t tell cancer patients what they could be doing to cure themselves. by Steven W Thrasher, Saturday 26 March 2016, The Guardian There are many ways to support someone going through cancer treatment. Recommending pseudo-scientific treatments isn’t one of them  Don’t take your mortality fears out on cancer patients. Photograph: Alamy If you’re a religious person, for …

The stick and the alive one

« I don’t like the phrase « A cry for help ». I just don’t like how it sounds. When somebody says to me, « I’m thinking about suicide, I have a plan; I just need a reason no to do it », the last thing I see is helplessness. I think: your depression has been beating you up for …

WHEN DID YOU STOP DANCING ?

« In many shamanic societies, if you came to a medicine person complaining of being disheartened, dispirited, or depressed, they would ask one of four questions: « When did you stop dancing? When did you stop singing? When did you stop being enchanted by stories? When did you stop being comforted by the sweet territory of silence? » …